20/07/2026
For years, people have asked me two questions: "How would you describe your style?" and "How do I find my own?" My answer has changed over time because I have changed over time. I no longer believe that great interiors begin with choosing a design style. They begin with understanding yourself.
The homes we love most aren't created in a weekend or copied from Pinterest. They evolve alongside us. They collect memories, reflect new chapters, and quietly adapt as our priorities shift. The most beautiful homes are living spaces that grow with the people inside them.
Instead of asking, "What's my style?" maybe we should ask: "How do I want to feel when I walk through my front door?" Calm? Inspired? Creative?
Comfortable? Free?
Those answers become the foundation for every design decision that follows.
After twenty years in design, four books, dozens of homes I've lived in, and countless conversations with homes I've been to, I've come to believe that personal style isn't something you find.
It's something you uncover by paying attention to who you're becoming.
I wrote more about this in my latest essay, "A Home That Grows With You." I'd love to hear your thoughts. What do you think changes first over the years - our homes, or us?
---> https://decor8.substack.com/p/a-home-that-grows-with-you