06/11/2026
I have a potty mouth and I apologise for that. But this is a subject close to my heart. Too many people tell me that they don’t like to host (or as I prefer to call it, have people over) because they’re worried they’ll be judged for the state of their home. And I can tell you, the only reasons I would ever judge you: you offend me with harsh overhead light, you don’t offer me a drink (dry white wine preferred, thank you very much) and you don’t give me some kind of snack (chips are a favorite). Oh, and you don’t relax and sit down for a chat - because being your own best guest is exactly that, and having people over is fun, I promise, especially once we let go of the perfectionism that the algorithm shows us (and trust me, those perfectly styled evenings are usually a dead bore).
Please don’t misunderstand this: I make an effort when I have friends over. I love doing that, I love to cook, I love to show off our home. But I don’t let the state of my home dictate if and when I have them over - because as long as there is indirect light or a candle plus drinks and snacks, anywhere can be a place to chat, laugh, connect.
Have I inspired you to invite some friends over? Let me know in the comments. And give me a follow for more unhinged opinions. Never beige, always organic.