01/08/2018
Hello, Second Monday of the New Year! Quite honestly, I haven't had much time the last week to think about my biz idea ... only some basic ideas of what I *don't* want. This IS a start. Slow and small, but a start nonetheless.
It's January which for a heck of a lot of people means "NY's resolution time." In the past, I used to go pretty hardcore on resolutions. My prior professional life (hospitality sales) was all about those SMART plans and SMART goals - so I've certainly been trained in "the how" - to make those goals achievable, etc. Despite this - and like most people - I flamed out on ye old NY's resolutions by March.
For the last few years, I have had a smattering (shall we say) of personal and professional upheaval and also experienced excellent changes, too. (All of the above I'm grateful for- after all, what does not kill you....!) The result is that my mindset is a bit different when it comes to the concept of resolutions - I've gone big picture, self-help books and articles be damned. Truth be told, January has always been a natural re-set month for me, as my birthday is this month.
So for 2018, I'm looking at:
-Start "THIS" - meaning my business. I'll figure out what "THIS" looks like and is named sooner than later. Really I will.
You'll hold me accountable - although there's only 7 of you following me now. We can call it Melissa M. Lipton, Inc. for the time being. (Though not particularly catchy.) This page will look a hell of a lot different sooner than later. Especially because it's not pretty or cool looking and I like both.
-Maintain my weight. Unlike 100% of America, my decision to get my sh*t together with my health ("lose weight!") happened in April instead of January - in 2016. I lost a third of my body weight and hit my weight goal in January of 2017. 1 year down, rest of my life to go. Though some may disagree, maintaining has been harder than losing was. But that's a topic for another day, along with the "how" - as I'm constantly asked when folks find out my "story." (Really, it's not all that exciting!) Though it is influenced by and does wrap into my whole "cooking business thing."
-Working out 3 x week. I pretty much do this already but life (work, social commitments, colds, subzero weather) does sometimes get in the way when you let it. Funny, I didn't let life derail me often when I was losing weight - and didn't I said maintaining was harder? Related: try something new 1 x a month. Those of you know me well, know I joined the cult of Orangetheory. It's an amazing workout and the support system from the friends I've made at my studio invaluable. But variety is the spice of life, so I've vowed to try something new once a month this year. (Barre, Flywheel, Brooklyn Boulders ...). Bonus: intro classes are generally free, cheap and Groupons galore.
-Beach. My favorite place in the world - I grew up going to the Maryland and Delaware eastern shore, I was lucky enough to work in the Caribbean and my happy place is with the warm sun on my face and sand between my toes. Foster Avenue or Montrose Beach here in Chicago can sometimes do the trick for a pretty Sunday afternoon in August. At some point, 2018 will have me on a beach that is not run by the Chicago Park District - preferably, in a place that the currency that is not the US $. (Exception: STJ and BVI.)
-"Apartment blow out 2018!" Looks the era of our nice little Friends-eque compound on N Wi******er may be coming to an end. When one has not moved for almost 11 years, one has a lot of crap, especially when you were in a home office for all but 6 months of this time. Not particularly fun, but a "to do" for my first part of 2018.
-New feline family member. I miss my last best feline friend like crazy. While my initial heartbreak has subsided a little, I now feel like my right arm is missing and I'm right-handed.
-Start "THIS." (Repeated on purpose.) My brain is still whirring on "THIS" - the whole my business thing. The related part: get my $ s**t together. (So guess I'll learn if do what you love and the $ follows is really true, eh?!) Stay tuned.
Bon appetit,
Melissa