06/03/2026
I think about this often.
Death is inevitable.
What am I doing to show my child that stuff is just stuff, but it's the people and moments that make life amazing?
Don't get me wrong, I'm also a sentimentalist and have lots of "special" items either tucked away, or better yet, used in every day life! But I'm trying my best to have boundaries with items and not put value in shopping as a hobby, needless upgrades, more more more.
But from what I've experienced with some clients, clearing out a house or apartment of a loved one after they have passed is an overwhelming, and sometimes burdensome task. It's draining emotionally, physically, and mentally.
I strongly encourage people to tackle their home and remove the clutter, so when your time comes, your family can focus on what matters.
Sending all my love and support to anyone who has dealt with difficult situations like this after saying goodbye to a loved one.
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..an excellent book I'd recommend here is The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning, by Margareta Magnusson.