10/02/2025
A beautiful, local (Ottawa area) homesteader doing amazing things. Thank you How Does Your Garden Grow? for all that you do. You inspire me 🙏💖🌱
Still think the world has gone to sh*t? I guess it depends on where you get your news.
Every morning we are bombarded with tragic news stories. Stories of death and corruption. Stories of hatred and division. Stories of injustice and oppression. Our brains were not designed to take on this much information.
But what if I told you that there are just as many good news stories as bad? They just don’t get the airtime they deserve because they don’t put asses in the seats.
The other day a woman purchased $21 worth of produce from my stand and asked to put the rest of this $100 bill towards my Pay it Forward baskets. In the same week, another member of this page dropped off several hundred dollars worth of meat for my freezer to be distributed to those in need. I have a steady stream of people stopping by weekly with eggs, pears, apples, preserves and other treats to help those who are having a hard time making ends meet.
I see kindness every day. But I also look for it.
I stay away from mainstream media not because I don’t care but merely because if I paid too much attention, I would be paralyzed with grief, unable to do anything for those I actually CAN help.
Let me be clear, I care very deeply about the atrocities happening around our world, but if I don’t think hyper local, I will never be able to make any impact. Some may call me ignorant for not staying on top of every news story as it comes in, but I just say that our brains and hearts were not designed to hold the grief of the entire world. It’s impossible to process.
I am someone who feels very very deeply. It would be impossible for me to function with all of the grief that goes along with hearing about every single tragedy out of my control. So while my heart collectively breaks for the millions of people who might need me, all I can do is focus on the dozen or so that I can directly affect in a real and meaningful way. And if each of us did that, around the world, in our own communities, maybe we could actually start to make change instead of being paralyzed with the grief that comes with believing that the world has gone to sh*t.
So please share this post in hopes that someone out there will read it because it may be the only good news post they see online today 🩷