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When i was little i drew every single day and dreamt of being an artist. I really let life get in the way, and just fell...
18/06/2026

When i was little i drew every single day and dreamt of being an artist. I really let life get in the way, and just fell out of it, the way you do with a lot of things when you grow up.

I’ve been trying to get back to the things that actually make me happy lately, not because they’re useful or productive, just because they make me feel like myself. Picking this back up has been one of the better decisions I’ve made for myself recently.

If there’s something you loved when you were little and haven’t done it in years, I genuinely think you should try it again asap. It’s made me so happy and really think it can help all of us reconnect with parts of ourselves we might have forgotten :)

17/06/2026

So much of our childhood as gay men (and the wider LGBTQ+ community too) is spent hiding and feeling ashamed of a huge part of who we are. For me that meant changing my hobbies, covering my interests, anything to avoid outing myself or giving people a reason to suspect who I really was. It wasn’t always like that, but as I got older I became increasingly embarrassed by the most authentic parts of myself.

I’ve been doing a lot of work to undo that learnt behaviour and shame. I’ve still got a long way to go. But I think recognising those patterns, and questioning why you made certain decisions, is the first step toward a more authentic version of yourself :)

15/06/2026

ad who else REALLLLY struggles with motivation to do their cleaning?
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The @‌sharkhomeuk UV Reveal robot vacuum and mop has genuinely made cleaning so much easier. It’s the ONLY robot that uses UV light to show you mess you didn’t even know was there, which is equal parts satisfying and horrifying, and while I’m upstairs losing a fight with a duvet cover, it’s down there actually dealing with it. The suction is ridiculously good, it detects stains, and it neutralises odours too. Basically, it does everything I’d rather not. Cleaning done ✅
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14/06/2026

I know it’s hard, but trust me, it’s worth it :)

doing it for little Toby 🥹 I had so much fun scrolling old albums and getting all these baby pics
11/06/2026

doing it for little Toby 🥹 I had so much fun scrolling old albums and getting all these baby pics

over 12 years later, still going to theme parks & eating too much ice cream 🫂
09/06/2026

over 12 years later, still going to theme parks & eating too much ice cream 🫂

08/06/2026

AD who else does this? 🫣

Alice & Steve on is probably the most fun, entertaining and ACTUALLY FUNNY TV show I’ve watched in years. It has an outrageous, unexpected story which makes it SO bingeable. It’s an absolute must-watch new British comedy series and is OUT NOW on @‌disneyplusUK 📺

Our family got a little bit bigger 🥹
07/06/2026

Our family got a little bit bigger 🥹

whose holiday are you coming on? mine or mikeys?🤭ps we both ate everything the other did
04/06/2026

whose holiday are you coming on? mine or mikeys?🤭

ps we both ate everything the other did

03/06/2026

Is it a universal gay experience to have said you’re brothers while travelling? 🫪

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