09/04/2024
So.., today,I will write on the TRUE cause of broken marriages today.
And possibly PREVENTION.
By the GRACE of God, our marriage will NOT fall apart(Amen).
Now.., number one factor is CHEATING!!!
This is why,I am constantly writing AGAINST cheating in marriage, because it's capable of destroying any happy home.
You might not believe me,but MOST domestic abuse, is as a result of cheating.
When you find out, you have being loyal to a chronic cheats for several years?
it's really heartbreaking!!
You feel hurt and confused at the same time.
You don't know how to handle the heart break.
Especially..,if it's a BETRAYAL.
Some lose CONTROL and result to physical ABUSE.
Sometimes death!!
A clear case of the above scenario is the husband of the female banker.
He just realized their 8 months old child, belongs to the politician his wife is dating.
He killed his wife and also killed him self.
What a sad story?!!
Hear this;
The solution is,"have SELF CONTROL" and be CONTENTED with what your wife or husband can offer you
Number two:
FINANCE.
Believe me.., POVERTY is responsible for many broken marriages today.
Some say.., money is NOT everything.
But.., MONEY is important in marriage.
LOVE will not feed or cloth you?
ONLY love, will NOT pay your kids school fees.
LOVE will NOT pay your house rent.
LOVE will NOT buy your cream,hair etc.
I am saying.., to truly enjoy that happy home, you need FINANCE!!
This is why, couples are encouraged to get something doing no matter how small.
Yes..,many married women are cheating on their husband, because of MONEY!!
Lack of finance (money),lead to the number one factor above.
I say.., from the little you have,take care of your woman.
As a wife, don't sleep around because of money.(Be CONTENTED)!
Number three:
S*X!!!
You might not know, but a good s*x is the right of every married couples.
This is why, being unnecessarily absent;
Not paying attention to your wife or husband is very WRONG!!!
You are creating that vacuum.
Clearly,one of the reason why some are cheating on their wife or husband.
As a man.., you feel your wife is no longer attractive because she is a mother?
You are thinking about hurtful statement your wife or husband told you during a heated argument.
Hence,why you are no longer in the mood?
I say..,LET it GO!!!
Encourage your woman to look attractive for you.
Have a forgiving spirit and understand no human is perfect!
Be willing to apologize, when you are wrong
This leads to;
Having a good CHARACTER!!!
It's the ULTIMATE after God.
You treat your spouse with utmost RESPECT!!
Lastly and more importantly;
Always PRAY for your spouse,kids and marriage!!!
Yes.., the devil is out to destroy many happy homes.
Please be vigilant!!!
Much love 💕💕💕
