28/10/2026
Where do some men get off telling their wife to leave their house with her children? Is he not the father of those children? Or is there something you’re not telling us?
Because if that man is the father of those children, why on earth is he telling you to leave his house WITH HIS CHILDR£N?
Is he m@d?
Has he gone b@nanas?
You women are enabling some of this nonchalant "horsebands" & their trashy attitude. If women normalise leaving childr£n behind every time a horseband says, “Leave my house,” trust me, these men will think twice before opening their mouths.
“My house! Leave my house!” Every second, it’s “my house.” Yet if you check properly, it’s probably a rented apartment. The m@n may not even have a cracked concrete stone to his name - not even the white precious one from the sea! Yet every Eke market day, “Leave my house!”
What is wrong with some m£n of these days?
Who raised these b○ys?
Where do you get off telling a wom@n you m@rried that she should leave your house and go somewhere with the children you both created? You’re giving her an ultimatum about when to leave with YOUR childr£n? How d@re you?
If he is m@n enough, let him tell you to go AND leave the children with him. Let him take full responsibility for them. You cannot decide that you want a woman out of your house and, at the same time, expect her to carry the children and every single responsibility that comes with them.
Madam, quit b£gging. M@N UP to his nonchallance. Level up to his m@dn£ss.
Tell him,
“Fine. I will leav£. But before I leav£, you will provid£ what is required for th£se childr£n.”
Calculate it properly.
Ask for the r€nt you will need to s€cure .
Ask for their school f££s. F££ding. Medical £xpens£s. Transportation. Everything these children n££d. And don't just ask for one or two months.
Ask him to pr○vide at least ONE YEAR of their £ssential upk££p upfront.
The money you will use to rent the house he is telling you to leave for is the same money he should provide. You should not be the one scrambling to solve a problem HE has created. You read me?!!!
Don't solve the pr○blem he created!!!
Then let him know that you will send him a clear breakdown of what he is expected to provide monthly thereafter. Because these children belong to both of you. He cannot decide to send you away and then dump the entire financial, Emotional & physical responsibility of raising them on you.
And please, stop crying and begging him to change his mind. You need to teach him that you are not helpless.
Because honestly, maybe one j●bless & us£less thing living in shanty.., is beginning to press his balls - sorry, he doesn't even have balls. They are pressing the rotten bell peppers under his leg, and suddenly this m@n has found the courage to start telling his wif£ to leave his house with their three children!
Because why? Why has he suddenly developed this level of audacity? If this nonsense has been going on from June until now(6 months later)!; then something is clearly happening. Is there somebody outside giving him this confidence? Is there another wom@n somewhere making him feel like he can simply discard his wife and children and start another life?
Don't be surprised.
M@rriage is not a swimming pool. Marriage is a b@ttlefield. If you are going into it, go !, complete arm○ur, helmet, everything. Because some people will keep pressi¤g your neck simply because they believe you have now way of fi+hing back
And that is why once a weak m@n sees a strong, bold & audacious woman, he flees off and somebody they believe they can control.
But Madam, wipe your tears. You have cried enough.
If he comes back, tell him you heard him and you are making arrangements. But let him know clearly that if he seriously insists that you should leave with those children, he needs to make proper provision for them.
And if he refuses to provide anything but continues insisting that you leave, then tell him to DIVORCE you appropriately. And this juncture, he won't be left with a choice because there must be separation before divorce and trust me he can't deal....
You are not leaving simply because he woke up one morning and decided he no longer wants you in his house. If he wants you out that badly, let him go through the proper process and divorce you.
Of course, you did not state that he is violent, so there is no need to introduce violence where there isn't any. But if he becomes violent, ah-ah! That changes the entire situation. At that point, protect yourself. Get him arrested if necessary, get yourself out safely, and deal with him through the appropriate authorities. Mess him up through every legitimate avenue available to you.
And PLEASE, make sure you have your proof. Keep your messages. Keep recordings where lawful. Keep evidence of threats, financial neglect, harassment—everything. Don't just talk; document.
And while you are fighting your way out of this situation, WATCH YOUR BACK.
Some people can be extremely vile when they realise they are losing control. They may not have money to go through proper court proceedings. They may not want to take responsibility for the children. They simply want you gone, and when you refuse to make things easy for them, they may decide to take matters into their own hands.
So be alert. Tell people you trust what is happening. Don't isolate yourself. Keep your important documents and your children's documents somewhere safe. And please, don't assume because he hasn't been violent before that he cannot become violent now.
Sleep with almost your two eyes open. In fact, if possible, let your mouth be open too! 😂 Stay alert!
Madam, you have cried enough.
Wipe your tears.
Stand up.
And ACT.
To your success.
