Her Country Roots

09/20/2025

I was sitting on the porch this morning reading my Bible and this verse really stood out to me “The simple believe anything, but the prudent give thought to their steps.” (Proverbs 14:15)

It just hit a little different, especially with everything going on right now. The media is loud, social media is loud, everybody has an agenda and it feels like the whole goal is to keep us at each other’s throats. And honestly, if we’re not careful, it’s so easy to get caught up in it.

But this verse reminded me… we’re not supposed to get our truth from the media or from whatever the algorithm is feeding us. We have to go back to the word of God. That’s where discernment comes from. That’s where wisdom comes from.

And if we’re not in the word, if we’re not grounded in it, then we’re wide open to being deceived. Discernment is one of the greatest gifts God gives us in times like these, but we can’t walk in it if we don’t know his voice.

So I guess this is me just reminding myself (and maybe you too), open your bible more than you open the news app. Trust his word more than you trust your feed.

04/24/2025

I’ve been mulling this over a lot lately, and during my Bible time this morning Mark 12 : 28‑34 jumped off the page. I’ve read it before, but today it hit different.

Jesus puts staggering weight on one word—love. We toss that word around like loose change, yet God calls us to love in a way that’s costly, intentional, and unmistakable. Judging by the division we see—even inside the church—you’d think we forgot what love looks like.

Division is everywhere—online, at work, even in the pews—but that was never God’s design. When asked for the greatest commandment, Jesus answered:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Love your neighbor as yourself.

“There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12 : 30‑31)

He didn’t mention denominations, politics, flawless church attendance, or resume-worthy works. Without love, the rest is just noise (1 Cor 13 : 1‑3).

Love Is Non‑Negotiable...

1. It fulfills the whole Law

“All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” (Matt 22 : 40)

Paul echoes it: “Whoever loves others has fulfilled the law… Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” (Rom 13 : 8‑10)

👉 Every rule God ever gave points back to loving Him and loving people.

2. Real disciples are measured by love, not agreement

“By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13 : 34‑35)

People should recognize Christ in us long before they know our stance on every issue.

3. Unity was Jesus’ dying wish for us

“I pray… that they may all be one, just as You, Father, are in Me and I in You.” (John 17 : 20‑23)

Our oneness is meant to prove to the world that the Father sent the Son. When we split and squabble, that witness cracks.

4. Hatred exposes a counterfeit faith

“Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.” (1 John 4 : 20‑21)

John doesn’t sugar‑coat it: you can’t love an invisible God while despising the visible image‑bearer in front of you.

It’s natural to withhold love from enemies or from those who dismiss us. But Jesus asks, “If you love those who love you, what reward will you get?” (Matt 5 : 46).

True Christians are called to be set apart—we pull away from fleshly habits and live the way Jesus told us to: Love God wholeheartedly. Love people sacrificially.

I hope this reminder settles into the quiet places of your heart and nudges its way into every corner of your week. May it color your conversations, soften your reactions, and guide each small decision, whether that looks like corralling kids, clocking in at work, or scrolling past that post that normally riles you up.

Little acts done in His name carry kingdom weight.

Cheering you on as you love God big and love people well. Have a beautiful, grace‑soaked week, friend. ❤️

02/26/2025

Hey, guys! For those of you who don’t know me, I wanted to introduce myself. I’m Kacie—a farm-raised, homeschooling mom of four boys, ages 3-17. I’m also a nurse and licensed esthetician who decided to use my skills to create a natural business after my son was officially diagnosed with autism.

One thing I’m really passionate about is the harmful chemicals in many of the products we use daily. Our skin is our largest organ, and it absorbs everything we put on it. Just like we’re mindful about the ultra-processed foods we eat, what goes on our skin is just as important. Chemicals in skincare can cause irritation, disrupt hormones, and lead to long-term health issues. That’s why I’m so dedicated to creating safe, natural products for my family and yours.

I go above and beyond with my tallow balms. They're made with 100% grass-fed tallow and organic extra virgin olive oil—and I put the oil in a glass bottle, not plastic, because I believe in doing things the right way. Every ingredient is chosen carefully to make sure it’s the best for your skin—no hidden toxins, no harmful chemicals, just pure nourishment.

When you support my business, you're supporting local farmers, as well as helping my boys learn responsibility. They’re involved in every step of the process—from creating and packaging to shipping and delivery. I love that they’re learning valuable skills while being a part of something that means so much to us as a family.

My tallow balms are available in Unscented, Honey, Lavender, and Frankincense. If you're looking for a clean, effective, and family-friendly skincare option, you can grab yours at shop.hercountryroots.com. And thank you for supporting my family’s journey!

02/10/2025

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It truly is the newsletter I wish I had sent to me, so I made it instead. I do not spam 😘

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02/06/2025

I’m replaceable.

I’m replaceable at my job. Someone else could sit at my desk, clock in, and do the work.
I’m replaceable in social circles. Life moves on, people come and go.
I’m even replaceable in volunteer roles, projects, and commitments—no matter how much heart I pour into them, someone else could step in.

But at home? There, my presence matters in a way no one else’s can.

No one else shares the inside jokes, the memories, and the quiet understanding I have with my husband.
No one else knows my babies quite like I do—the way their little faces light up in the morning or the exact hug they need after a hard day.
No one else can fill my home with the warmth, love, and presence that only I can bring.

And that matters.

Whether you work full-time outside the home, run a business, or are a full-time homemaker, your presence in your home is sacred. The world may make you feel like homemaking is outdated or unimportant—like the real work is found in titles, promotions, or paychecks. But the work done inside the walls of your home? That’s legacy work. That’s kingdom work.

It’s in the way you fold tiny clothes and smooth blankets over sleepy heads.
It’s in the meals you make, the prayers you whisper, the hugs you give after a hard day.
It’s in the simple, everyday moments that seem small but build the foundation of a family.

Home isn’t just four walls. It’s the heart of your family. And you, mama, are the heartbeat.

So on the days you feel stretched thin, on the days the laundry is endless and the to-do list mocks you, on the days you wonder if what you’re doing even matters—remember this:

The world may replace you, but your family never could.
And that is a calling worth everything. 💛

-Love, Kacie

02/04/2025

Well, after at least a year of going back and forth between Berkey and Reverse Osmosis, I purchased the Waterdrop Water Filter Reverse Osmosis System.

I had always leaned toward the Reverse Osmosis but the whole house system wasn't in my budget. So after visiting a friend, I discovered this Tankless Waterdrop Reverse Osmosis System and these are my honest thoughts :)

My honest Waterdrop water filter G3P600 reverse osmosis system review. Is Waterdrop a good water filter brand?

01/11/2025

The boys love snow cream!! It’s a sweet little tradition one I’ve passed down from my childhood.

Here’s the recipe:
❄️ 8 cups of snow
❄️ 1 cup of milk
❄️ 1/3 cup of granulated sugar
❄️ 1 teaspoon of vanilla

Just pour the mixture over your snow! 🍧

12/20/2024

12/10/2024

🎙️ Big News, Y’all! 🌾

I’m so excited to finally share Her Country Roots: The Podcast with you! This is where we’ll talk about old-fashioned living, natural skincare, from-scratch cooking, and all the lessons I’ve learned growing up on the farm. 🐓✨

In the first episode, "My Story. My Heart. My Why", I’m sharing my story—how all those mistakes, struggles, and lessons led to this beautiful space where I get to help you lean into simplicity and live more naturally. 💕

Grab a cup of coffee and tune in—and think of it like sitting on the porch, swapping stories with an old friend. 🪑☕

🎧 Listen now: https://podcast.hercountryroots.com/
Let me know what you think of the first episode, and tag a friend who’d love this journey too! 🌟 (Also, give me some grace on the technical aspects of it- sound, editing, etc. I'm new to this audio editing thing). Have a beautiful day!

Welcome to the Her Country Roots podcast—your down-to-earth guide to sweet, simple, and intentional living. I’m Kacie Barlow, a wife, homeschooling mama to four, and farm-raised sixth-generation homesteader. Growing up surrounded by gardens, anima...