02/28/2026
I wanted to take a break from our regularly scheduled terrarium/art/shenanigans posting to give yāall a bit of an update because a) some of you are already clued in on our situation, but b) some of yāall are not and I wanted to give you the reasons behind our recent radio silence and slow work turnaround times.
Yesterday our extremely dear close friend (letās be real, heās chosen family) David Sabio finally took his last breaths and left us to go wander in the trees in a place where we can no longer catch up to him. Iām really sad, but also relieved that he is no longer suffering as much as he was, almost a year after weād found out his pancreatic cancer came back for round two and barely a week and a half after he told us he was going to quit chemo to give his body a rest for however long he had left, which it turns out wasnāt nearly as long as Iād hoped. As cliche as it sounds, he really personified the concept of āsuper-humanā, even though he was always too modest to agree. Dave did things every day that I fear the majority of us (myself included) would struggle to accomplish even on our best days; heād dip out to go snowboard or surf for a weekend, go climb a mountain randomly, ārelocateā annoyingly huge rocks from alongside the highway, lug giant logs around, gleefully cut down your Bradford pears or show up to clean your gutters when you didnāt even realize they needed it, all without breaking a sweat. This man loved to cram as much living into every day as he possibly could, and heād drag you along with him whenever he got the chance (regardless of how reluctant you might be at first).
Not only did Dave break through my stealthily guarded exterior layers to spark up an extremely close friendship with me, but he became a brother to Char that we never thought sheād get to have, a beloved caregiver to our mob of chaotic animals (even Ravioli as much as he would never admit to it), and a permanent fixture in our day to day lives. (Sorry this is so long, but itās continued in the pinned comment below.) ā¬ļø