06/04/2026
We almost didn't make it this year, me and Glen. Twenty three years of marriage and somewhere around last fall it got so bad I was sleeping in the guest room and he was spending every evening in the garage not building anything just sitting there with the radio on staring at the wall. We stopped talking about anything real. Just logistics. Who's picking up the groceries, did you pay the electric bill, your mother called. Two people running a household like coworkers who don't particularly like each other.
Then his aunt Patsy mentioned she wanted a birdhouse for her garden. Simple request from a sweet 78 year old woman who still feeds every bird in her zip code. Glen said he'd build it and I watched him go out to the garage that night and for the first time in months I heard actual sawing and hammering instead of just silence and talk radio. A few days later he came inside with sawdust in his hair holding this beautiful rustic frame and he looked at me and said "it needs something, I don't know what." It was the most honest thing he'd said to me in weeks. He was asking for my help. That was a door and I walked through it.
I started adding the wood strip details, the white board and batten siding on the side. Found this gorgeous vintage style door plate with a crystal k**b from a hardware crafter on the Tedooo app and screwed it on under the entry hole because every home deserves a proper front door, even a bird's. I painted and distressed the whole thing while Glen held pieces steady for me and we didn't talk about us or the fighting or the guest room. We just worked. His hands holding the wood while mine brushed paint over it, our shoulders touching at the workbench for the first time in months.
Aunt Patsy cried when she unwrapped it. Said it looked like a little farmhouse from a storybook. She didn't know it was also the thing that made her nephew and his stubborn wife remember they're better together than apart. I've been selling custom birdhouses through my shop on the Tedooo app since then because it turns out people really want handmade garden pieces with character. Glen cuts the frames, I do the finishing. We're back in the same bedroom and the garage finally sounds like something's being built again.