06/04/2026
3 June 2026: Today Wasn't About The Alarm
Today reminded me that healing isn't about never getting triggered again.
It's about what you do when the trigger shows up.
Something small happened early this morning & before I knew it, old stories started running through my head.
You know the ones...
The stories that tell you:
Everything is your fault
You're not enough
You've done something wrong
And for a while I sat with those thoughts.
But here's what was different:
I knew they weren't true.
I knew they were old stories.
And instead of letting them grow into resentment, distance, or conflict...
I asked the question.
The uncomfortable one.
The vulnerable one.
The honest one.
And the answer reminded me that sometimes the things we fear most only exist inside our own minds.
Healing isn't about perfection.
It's about communication.
It's about choosing connection over assumptions.
And today I'm thankful for both.