11/02/2022
Tween rooms are all about expressing themselves. I’m always a little hesitant going into their room knowing what angst may be brewing in their minds. After all, “who is this lady coming into my room!?”
So, before every kiddo project I enter, not just for documentation sake, I do my best to take detailed before and afters of their room as to not loose their unique self in my decluttering. Carefully taking every sticker off the wall. Taking down every poster that seems to be glued to the wall, and wiping the vanity off while leaving a bit of their art still there. For this vanity, I told her I was only wiping it to give her a new canvas. She seemed to muster up a slight smile and giggle after that one. I hope when she sees all her stickers still useable, a new cork board for her tiny Polaroids (and hopefully stickers😛), the Christmas lights that were once strung on her wall, wrapped nicely in the storage tower by her door, waiting for her own decorating touches, she’ll feel a little less invaded. 🤞
And maybe, just maybe, feeling FREE to BE creative in a room that’s made just for her❤️ Not that she lacks any creativity.
For parents who are working hard to provide the best life for their kids and choose not to spend their minutes arguing with their children about cleaning their space.. I commend you. Truly. My son thinks the only reason I walk into his room is to tell him to do this or that with it.
So you see.. two sides to this battle. You choose.
To this badass Mom and her sweet tween daughter, I’ve got your back.