09/09/2026
I waited and waited for Childhood Cancer Awareness Month this year. I was ready to give it everything I had.
We have an incredible matching donor willing to match up to 2,000 Brave Gowns as we head toward Brave Gowns’ 10-year anniversary and Halloween, the day my brother was diagnosed with cancer.
I’m less than 40,000 Brave Gowns to raising a million, which seems like it could really happen.
I had plans. I had posts ready in my head. I thought I would hit September running.
And then September came, and I just froze.
It was like all the wind had been taken out of me.
For ten years, Brave Gowns has brought some of the most incredible children and families into my life. And as I started looking through their pictures, trying to figure out what I wanted to share this month, I saw too many real moments. Too many hospital rooms. Too many treatments. Too many little faces I love who are no longer here.
And I realized again that childhood cancer isn’t really a month.
For these families, it’s every second. It’s the fear, the waiting, the hoping, the scans, the treatments and the worry that doesn’t disappear when September ends.
And for the families who have lost a child, it’s learning how to live while a piece of your heart is physically missing from this world.
We’ve talked over the years about the “gift of cancer.” About how it teaches you to love harder, live more fully and appreciate every single second. And I believe that. Cancer changed the way I love and the way I live.
But the truth is, the world would be so much better if no family ever had to receive that “gift.” If no parent had to learn those lessons this way.
These are the faces of just a few of the children in heaven who are forever embedded in my heart over the last ten years. They have taught me to love harder, do better and give more.
May I see their faces constantly to find the wind to keep going and hit all these incredible milestones. I’d love any help if anyone wants to keep making a change with us! 💛
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